Piece of cake anyone?

They say you can have anything in life, you will just have to sacrifice everything else to get it.

Do some people really "have it all?" A fit body, a thriving career, an awesome family life and a clean kitchen to boot? If you are one of those people....

PLEASE RAISE YOUR HAND....

and tell me how in the world you do it!?!?! I have come to realize that to fully go after something other things must be sacrificed. You want to be fit and healthy, maybe your social life might suffer because you can't go out with your friends as much. You want an amazing career? Maybe your relationship with your spouse might suffer because you are always working (or the brain is always on your work) You want something bad enough and you put your whole head and heart into it...other things are bound to suffer.....right?

I want to prove "them" wrong. I do want it all. And I don't want to have to give anything up.  We were meant to have our cake and EAT IT TOO (because DUH....what good is cake if we can't eat it!?)  I have been reading the good Book lately and it tells me to have God like dreams...I trust that He will lead me to where I need to be, and whatever trials, challenges, and speed bumps I run into on my way I will overcome. I know it. I feel it.



So, I guess this comes around again to having anything you want in this life, and I say, go for everything  (not just ANYTHING) with your whole heart. Don't give anything up, and certainly don't give in.



Let's do it together.

A little of this, a little of that, a little of life.

Well, it's been a while hasn't it?

I can't say that it has been the same ol' same ol' over here because, well it hasn't! Since the last time I have entered into this little blog I have so much has changed!
For those that are in my inner most circle know that within the last years I have moved, got a promo, got engaged, and got married.
Here's proof that I am a married woman now:

We're cute, right???

The last year or so  I took a big bite outta life, and while I am not discouraging that AT ALL, I AM encouraging one to really think about how much they can really handle and be SUCCESSFUL at, all at once. The problem that I started running into was that while I was doing OKAY in all these areas of my life that I was trying to excel at, I wasn't excelling at all....I was getting by. I was burning myself out trying to get everything perfect while not even achieving GOOD. You don't realize that it's happening at first until something happens, something forces you to look at what you are really doing and what you are putting first in your life. It might not be pretty to look at. It is worth it, to take a real hard look at what is happening and why things seem OFF.

I had to go to the doctor because something was wrong, and I don't like the doctor. Not because they poke and prod you. But they can find something that could change your life forever, I have had doctors tell me things like that about 2 3/4 years ago when a very good doctor told us the mom we knew and loved wasn't going to make it. Doctors scare me. I also know from my experience that if you put something off it is not going to get better on it's own. You have to take steps, you have to be active in the improvement of whatever is off.  So I went to the doctor....

Don't worry, I am not about to tell you I have some disease or anything like that. I don't...I am basically fine. BUT it was a wake up call, I am not doing what I want to do. I don't mean I don't like my job or where I live but I am not doing HOW I want to do in those areas. I've taken on too much, I am trying to get things done too quickly. I became overwhelmed with all the good things in my life and my desire to add more good things right away made it all kind of blow up in my face. 

My husband is a genius, don't tell him I said that, he already has a big head. But he has always said to live your day DELIBERATELY, and I haven't been doing that. But it changes today (well, it actually changed on Friday after I came back from a really, really AMAZING 2 day conference I attended) and I have changed a few things, and taken a few things off my plate and put something BACK on that I have been letting slide for FAR TOO LONG which is my health. I am prioritizing, making plans and setting goals (something I haven't done since I have moved back to NorCal). It's crazy how far you let yourself go until something has to go wrong to even wake you up. It happens very quickly. 

It's not just bad things that can shake you up, it's all the good things too. So much has happened and so much more is about to change. It's a weird place you can find yourself in, realizing things that you were hoping and wishing for a year and a half ago, and now all of a sudden they are actually happening. Doesn't mean you can check out, you still need to show up and work at things that are important to you but  don't stress the other stuff, focus in on what really matters..... 

I am going to show up everyday for my family, my fitness, my career, and make it all successful. I will do it because I am meant to, but I have to understand it is not in my hands, it is in His and it will all come together like it is meant to. 

***Trust in the Lord, and Do Good***

Why I Chose BeachBody

As a kid I remember my mom starting and stopping several Multi-Level Marketing companies. It always looked fun, and the promises were always so big. Look what you can get if you sell 100 candles, or 300 spatulas! WOW! (There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.) Once I was old enough I started doing it too, tried my hand with AVON, had a blast, for a little while. Then I moved onto Partylite, while that was FUN too, I eventually petered out of that too, kind of just following in my moms footsteps. Nothing ever really CLICKED with me. I was in and out of these companies before you can even say Multi level marketing. I stayed away from direct sales for  several, years. Until I came across Beachbody. Even when I first heard about the coaching opportunity I didn't really think it would be for me. But then I started thinking about how much fun I would have running challenge groups, how much fun I would have talking to people about their goals... A LOT OF FUN WAS TO BE HAD. 

 Beach Body is a whole lot more than selling Shakeology. It's even more than selling workout programs put together by celebrity trainers. It's sole mission is to end the trend of obesity. I can't tell you enough how much that resonates with me, it sticks with me. 

It is so much more than just selling to me, it's about providing an opportunity for someone to find their way...their way to happiness and their way with health. And for those of you that know me, know how very personal that is. 

I'm still finding my way, and on this way I have discovered so much about myself, that I never even knew existed. I have found a path, and it may still have obstacles, it may still be rough at times, I know where I am headed...

I am so Thankful for Beach Body, even though our relationship is still in the honeymoon phase, it is the longest relationship I've had with Direct Sales, because it IS not just about selling. It has a purpose, a real meaning and a real goal...that I can really stand behind and believe in. 

I was afraid to start, I didn't think I was ready, but here I am, 6 months later, still going,  there is so much to learn, and I am on my way...and I am so excited! 

Absolute

There are some absolute truths that I have learned in my short time here on earth. I will share some with you now:


1. Money, in fact, doesn't grow on trees. You have to earn it. You have to work for it. And lots of it. Things are DAMN EXPENSIVE.


2. Life is not fair. Bad things are going to happen to good people and good things are going to happen to bad people. We just have to get over it.


3. Everyone dies. Yep, it's true. Even those that we think are made of steel, and invincible, at some point are going to pass on. It's true when "they" say "Life: No one get's out of it alive."


4. We are all going to face tragedy once or twice in our lives. It stinks, but it happens. Another thing I've learned about this? It is so much easier to go through those bad things when we have someone, or some people that help us through it. That don't walk away when we turn into ugly people after something bad has happened. They stick around and help us through it, even if the only help they can offer is to be there.


5. There is such thing as True. Unconditional. Love. For your family, (whether it be blood, or the family you have chosen) For your romantic partner, for your friends. You can find those people out there that love the crap outta you. No matter what. (I'm lucky enough to have found some myself)


Another thing that I have learned?


6. When you are trying to figure out the "Next Step" in your life, you are not going to get a big, obvious sign from God, or any other higher power telling you what to do. You have to pay attention to the little things that are happening all around you. There are little signs and little things that will tell you that you are going in the right (or wrong) direction...


...I just wish I could see some of those right now, cuz I sure could use some signs.......

The House That Built Me

Phew, the holidays are over. Don't get me wrong, I do love that certain time of the year, it's just that I am happy that it's over.



Moving on.




2014 is going to be a big year, and I can feel it, I can feel it in my BONES. Yeah, I feel it that deep.


Maybe not anything HUGE and monumental will happen, but I am definitely putting things into the works, I am getting things going and that is what counts, that is where I feel the changes.


Taking a walk today, I heard a song, a song that instantly brought tears to my eyes and made me think of home. It's called "The House That Built Me" by Miranda Lambert. Brought back many, many memories. Not just my home town, but my actual home, where I grew up...


Where I filmed a video with my brother and we talked about my dad having "big teeth"


Where I performed a dance routine for my mom and my brother in the living room, on a skateboard...and wouldn't you know it...I slipped right off of it and flew into a table. Got a shiner that could have rivaled a boxer's.


Where I had my first kiss in the garage and ran inside vowing never to do THAT AGAIN. Hahaha. I feel bad for that guy....he was a teenage boy with hormones raging and I was a terrified little girl inside. Oh well...


Where I had my first REAL GROWN up kiss, right on my front porch, after that kiss, I wanted to do THAT over and over again. (Smoochie! Smoochie!)


Where my brother and I built forts in the living room out of ALL the blankets in the entire house.


Where I stole $5 from my brothers room, asked him to clean mine for $5. (He still won't let me live that down.)


Where I played "Sizzler" with my very best friend growing up. And how I can't even remember how we played that, I just remember that we did.




Where I used to fall asleep on the couch at night and magically wake up in my bed the next morning.


Where if I had  a nightmare in the middle of the night, all it would take is to crawl into mom's bed and the bad dream would disappear.


So many memories. Makes me miss my growing up years, where everything was so simple, so easy, so innocent. Where your biggest worry was if you had finished your packet of homework or if the boy that sits next to you thinks your cute. (cuz, my goodness, he was sooo cute!)


It's a different story now, you have to make choices that could change the course of your entire life. You have to pay your bills, you have to buy your own toilet paper. Toothpaste doesn't just magically appear in your bathroom, ready to brighten your smile. No one tells you to go to bed, so you better make sure you get to bed on your own (at a decent hour or you're gonna pay the price the next day!)


Yes, being a grown up is wonderful, I am learning new, wonderful, magical things every day. I've fallen in love, and am currently building a life that I can be proud of. But boy...do I miss home sometimes.....




"You leave home, you move on, and you do the best you can. I got lost in this big ol' world and forgotten who I am. I thought if I could touch this place and feel it, this brokenness inside might start healing. Out here it's like I'm someone else, I thought that maybe I could find myself if I could just walk around, I swear I'll leave. Won't take nothing but a memory, in the house that built me."

Have I mentioned?

That I LOVE TURBO FIRE?!?!?! Seriously, have you ever looked up Chalene Johnson? Look her up on Instagram, or Twitter. She is so inspirational and she keeps you moving!!!

The Ugly Side of Exercising

Here it is! A picture of ME. Right after a 45 minute session with Turbo Fire. It ain't pretty is it? Well, even though I FEEL great while taking this photo, I don't look that great. But you know what, I don't give a HOOT. You're supposed to look all sweaty after a good workout, man I felt good! I am starting a new project. Every day for 90 days I will be taking a picture of myself right after a workout. I want to take it just of my face, I want to see how my FACE changes. 

 

 

I just realized these pictures are almost exactly the same. Hey! Working out is not cute, OK?  That's why I Titled this "the UGLY side".

I am looking forward to posting my 90 days of faces and seeing how they change, who knows I might extend it to  6 months, maybe even a year!

Here is to the next 90 days! Happy picture taking!!!!